I got pregnant in college. Should I take a semester off of school?

If you become unexpectedly pregnant in college, should you take a semester off of school? The answer depends on your unique situation and personal preferences. You should consider your health, emotional well-being, support system, and academic goals when making this decision. Some women may want to take a semester away from college, and other women find that reasonable accommodations provide plenty of flexibility. 

It’s normal to worry about your future. It’s normal to worry about your academic goals and professional career. Let’s talk about how to stay on track.

First, if you’re wondering whether you should take a semester off of college, talk to your academic advisor. You won’t be the first student to ask this question, or the last! Your professors and academic advisors have worked with students in similar situations before, and they probably have suggestions for the best course of action based on their experience. Consider asking your professor whether they would agree to let you complete coursework early or work on a modified schedule. If the administrative staff or your professors agree to accommodate you, be sure to get it in writing. Usually a follow-up email is an easy way to do this.

If you have a scholarship or are receiving financial aid, it’s a good idea to review the terms and conditions. Check whether there’s a requirement for the minimum amount of credits you have to take each semester. Also find out if there’s a minimum GPA requirement, and see if you have wiggle room.

Specific degrees and programs may have unique requirements as well: 

• What kind of classes do you need to take? 
  
• How challenging are they? 
  
• If you skip a semester, will you still be eligible for your program? 
  
• Is your program very physical, like electrical engineering or nursing? 
  
• Are you able to work clinical shifts, do internships, or complete labs? 
  
• Are there any health risks? 
  

These are also good things to discuss with administrative staff or your professors.

Your health will play a large role in making this decision as well: 

• Have you struggled with morning sickness or any complications? 
  
• Do you plan to have a C-section or natural birth? 
  
• What is the expected recovery time for your unique situation? 
  
• When is your due date? 
  
• Could the baby come just in time to keep you from completing finals? 
  
• Would your professor let you work ahead and schedule your finals earlier? 
  
• Would you be able to apply for an “incomplete” and get an extension to take your finals later instead?
  

Luckily, there are several ways to strategize your school schedule. You could register for classes, and take note of the final withdrawal deadline just in case you change your mind. You could take classes part-time to give yourself more time for other obligations, but also keep the momentum going. Many expectant mothers do courses online instead of in-person to save time on commuting and to have more flexibility for doctor’s appointments, work schedules, or getting extra rest.

You also have a right to reasonable accommodations. Title IX is a federal law that protects pregnant students from discrimination. According to Title IX, pregnancy should be given the same allowances and accommodations as any other medical condition. This may include extensions for medical reasons, maternity leave, and even flexibility in cases of early labor. If you believe you are facing discrimination due to your pregnancy, you should report it to your college's Title IX coordinator or designated official. 

Deciding whether to take a semester away from school is difficult to do. Uncertainty makes it hard to plan your future and can cause a lot of anxiety. But remember that there are many, many moms who have gone through the same thing, and you don’t have to drop out of college if you don’t want to. The best thing you can do for yourself is to make sure you have a solid support system to help you through these decisions and be there for you on the other side of them. There are so many organizations and programs that are dedicated to helping moms stay in school, graduate, and pursue the career of their dreams.

If you’re unexpectedly pregnant in college and not sure what to do, our compassionate team is available 24/7 to talk with you. It’s completely free and confidential, with no obligation. Our mission is to take the fear out of college pregnancy. Call or text us today at 720-386-6009, so we can talk about how to get you the emotional, physical, and financial support you need.