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<channel><title><![CDATA[THE AVI PROJECT - blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[blog]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2026 07:04:40 -0600</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Who to Tell First When You’re Pregnant in College]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/who-to-tell-first-when-youre-pregnant-in-college]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/who-to-tell-first-when-youre-pregnant-in-college#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 16:28:58 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/who-to-tell-first-when-youre-pregnant-in-college</guid><description><![CDATA[You just found out you&rsquo;re pregnant unexpectedly, and now you&rsquo;re scared of telling the wrong person, at the wrong time, in the wrong way. You might even wonder if it&rsquo;s better to keep it a secret because the thought of telling anyone is too overwhelming. When you can barely manage your own feelings about this, how can you be expected to manage someone else&rsquo;s, too? How can you handle questions you don&rsquo;t have answers to yet? How can you deal with judgment when you&rsquo [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You just found out you&rsquo;re pregnant unexpectedly, and now you&rsquo;re scared of telling the wrong person, at the wrong time, in the wrong way. You might even wonder if it&rsquo;s better to keep it a secret because the thought of telling anyone is too overwhelming. When you can barely manage your own feelings about this, how can you be expected to manage someone else&rsquo;s, too? How can you handle questions you don&rsquo;t have answers to yet? How can you deal with judgment when you&rsquo;re already worried about your future? We&rsquo;ll walk you through who to talk to first when you find out you&rsquo;re pregnant in college, but a big takeaway is that there&rsquo;s no perfect order, and you&rsquo;re allowed to go at your own pace.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Before you tell anyone&hellip;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The first person you tell about your unplanned pregnancy doesn&rsquo;t have to be the most important person in your life. The first person you tell can simply be the safest. You also don&rsquo;t have to tell everyone at once. It&rsquo;s okay to take small steps, and sometimes that means finding one person you trust to help you take the next small step. If finding the answers to all your questions and making decisions about your future feels too overwhelming, that&rsquo;s what your support system is for. You don&rsquo;t have to figure it all out before you tell anyone.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Who should you tell first?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re trying to decide who to tell first about your unexpected pregnancy, you have a few options.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">first option</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> is to tell whoever can be emotionally supportive and give you space to process your feelings out loud without being judgmental or getting overly upset. This might be a close friend, sibling, roommate, mentor, or trusted adult. Some signs that this person is a good choice could be that they&rsquo;ve handled personal information well in the past, they listen more than they lecture, and they respect your autonomy. If you can feel safe being honest with them, and they&rsquo;re likely to respond with care and discretion in the moment, maybe they&rsquo;re a good person to tell first (even if they&rsquo;re not related to you).&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">second option</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> is to tell a support professional. If you&rsquo;re scared to tell someone you know, this can be a good first step because it&rsquo;s confidential, informed, and pressure-free. They&rsquo;re also likely to focus on resources, options, and practical next steps instead of their own emotions about what you&rsquo;re going through. If this resonates with you, you might speak with a pregnancy resource center counselor or off-campus pregnancy support organization. The Avi Project has counselors available to support your mental health and help you identify your options. Call or text us any time at 720-386- 6009. It&rsquo;s completely free and confidential.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700"> third option</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> is to tell your partner. If you&rsquo;re ready to tell them, they might be your best support. However, not everyone feels safe or ready to tell their partner first. You&rsquo;re allowed to gather information, talk to people who will be more supportive, or take a few days to adjust to the shock of an unplanned pregnancy. That doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re being dishonest or unfair. Especially if you&rsquo;re afraid that they&rsquo;ll pressure you to make a decision you disagree with, you might need to prepare for such a difficult conversation. Timing matters too. While there won&rsquo;t ever be a &ldquo;perfect time&rdquo; to break the news, you might avoid telling them after a fight, in public, or at the end of an exhausting day.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">A </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">fourth option</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> is to <strong><a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/how-do-i-tell-my-parents-im-pregnant-in-college" target="_blank">tell your parents. </a></strong>You might even feel obligated to go straight to your mom or dad, especially if you&rsquo;re financially dependent on them or you feel like telling them first would be damage control. However, a lot of students worry about having to manage their parents&rsquo; emotions about their situation. You might be worried about disappointing them or making them angry. Fortunately, many parents respond with more support than expected; they might be worried about you, they might even feel guilty, but most of all, they love you and want to make sure you and your baby will be okay. Regardless, you don&rsquo;t have to tell them until you feel ready, and you have freedom to plan what to say, how to say it, and when.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Who you don&rsquo;t have to tell yet.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Remember, telling one safe person doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re telling everyone. Take the first step, and worry later about telling professors, advisors, school administration, social media, and extended family. Here&rsquo;s a quick guide for when to tell everyone else:</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Tell your </span><span style="font-weight:700">academic advisors</span><span> earlier than your professors. They can act as buffers so you don&rsquo;t have to explain everything repeatedly and will be able to help you adjust course load, explore leaves or remote options, and plan around due dates and internships.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Tell your </span><span style="font-weight:700"><a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/should-i-tell-my-college-professor-im-pregnant">professors</a></span><span> when it starts affecting your coursework. If you&rsquo;re dealing with severe symptoms, taking absences, or needing accommodations, it&rsquo;s a good idea to tell your professors so they can support you. You&rsquo;re not obligated to share details.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Tell the&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight:700">school administration</span><span> before issues escalate. If you need formal accommodations, pregnancy is protected under<strong> <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/title-ix-rights-pregnant-college-student" target="_blank">Title IX</a> </strong>in the US. Talking to the school administration is especially important if you&rsquo;re pregnant during finals, will give birth during the term, or need postpartum accommodations.&nbsp;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Tell </span><span style="font-weight:700">extended family</span><span> when you feel ready. A lot of people share the news after their first trimester, but it&rsquo;s okay to delay if you need privacy.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Tell </span><span style="font-weight:700"><a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/how-to-announce-an-unplanned-pregnancy-when-single-or-in-college" target="_blank">social media</a></span><span> if it feels supportive instead of stressful. Before posting, ask yourself if you&rsquo;re prepared for unsolicited advice and messages.</span></span></li></ul> <span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">As a general guide, tell people in this order:</span></span><ol><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>People who directly affect your health, education, or stability.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>People who will support you.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Everyone else, if you want to.</span></span></li></ol> <span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">If you&rsquo;re still scared to tell anyone.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Here are some ideas for how to start the conversation:</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I found out I&rsquo;m pregnant and I don&rsquo;t know what to do yet.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;Can I talk to you about something really important? I&rsquo;m nervous, but I want to be honest with you.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I found out something recently, and it&rsquo;s big. I&rsquo;m pregnant and it was unexpected.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I just learned this myself and I&rsquo;m still processing, but I&rsquo;m pregnant.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;This isn&rsquo;t easy to say, and I don&rsquo;t have everything figured out yet.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;This was unexpected, and I&rsquo;m still sorting through how I feel.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not coming to you with a plan, I&rsquo;m coming with information.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know how you&rsquo;ll feel about this, but I hope we can talk it through.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m scared to say this, but I need to.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not asking you to fix anything, I just need you to hear me.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not ready for advice. I just need someone to listen.&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I might need time before answering questions.&rdquo;</span></span></li></ul> <span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It&rsquo;s normal to be afraid when you don&rsquo;t know how your friends and family will react. If you&rsquo;re feeling totally alone, reach out to our team at The Avi Project at 720-386-6009. We&rsquo;ve stood in your shoes. The Avi Project was founded upon our own unexpected college pregnancy story. We want to help you move forward with confidence and competence.</span></span><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Unplanned Pregnancy in Your 20s: Still in College]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/unplanned-pregnancy-in-your-20s-still-in-college]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/unplanned-pregnancy-in-your-20s-still-in-college#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 18:00:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/unplanned-pregnancy-in-your-20s-still-in-college</guid><description><![CDATA[    If being pregnant in your 20s wasn&rsquo;t the plan&hellip;Experiencing an unplanned pregnancy in your 20s comes with unique challenges. You might feel scared, confused, or unsure of what comes next. It&rsquo;s also normal to feel a mix of different emotions. Fear and hope can coexist. You might even feel love and resentment toward your partner at the same time. If you&rsquo;re in your twenties and navigating an unexpected pregnancy, you&rsquo;re not alone. This article offers practical guid [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">If being pregnant in your 20s wasn&rsquo;t the plan&hellip;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Experiencing an unplanned pregnancy in your 20s comes with unique challenges. You might feel scared, confused, or unsure of what comes next. It&rsquo;s also normal to feel a mix of different emotions. Fear and hope can coexist. You might even feel love and resentment toward your partner at the same time. If you&rsquo;re in your twenties and navigating an unexpected pregnancy, you&rsquo;re not alone. This article offers practical guidance, emotional reassurance, and information about the support available for pregnant students in their 20s.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Grieving the life you thought you&rsquo;d have.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Many young women who experience an unexpected pregnancy grieve the version of their 20s they once imagined. It&rsquo;s understandable - you might have had plans to take a gap year, travel, or add some internships to your resume. Maybe you wanted to start college, enjoy <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/can-you-be-in-a-sorority-and-be-pregnant" target="_blank">sorority life </a>and other extra-curricular activities, celebrate your 21st birthday at a bar, graduate on a strict timeline, and dive into your dream career. When those plans suddenly shift, the sense of loss can feel heavy and confusing. If you&rsquo;re navigating an unexpected pregnancy, it&rsquo;s healthy to name those losses and let go of any shame you have around your disappointment or sadness. It&rsquo;s normal to grieve. Give yourself permission to mourn </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">and</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> move forward, trusting that the future still holds meaning and possibility.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Reclaiming your vision for the future.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You don&rsquo;t have to decide everything right now. Clarity comes in steps. Clarity comes with time. Clarity </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">doesn&rsquo;t</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> come all at once. That said, you probably have a lot of questions and you can certainly start to do the groundwork for addressing those. Students in their 20s have unique concerns, and our team at The Avi Project specializes in helping young women address these challenges. You can call or text us any time at 720-386-6009 (it&rsquo;s free and confidential).</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">School: Dropping Out or Graduating</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/i-got-pregnant-in-college-should-i-take-a-semester-off-of-school" target="_blank">don&rsquo;t have to drop out</a>! You can still graduate. Your college experience may look different from what you originally planned, but staying enrolled is possible with the right support. Our team wants to help you navigate academic accommodations, leaves of absence, part-time enrollment, scholarships, and more. Needing a little extra help to complete your education doesn&rsquo;t make you a failure, it just means that success looks different from what you once imagined.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Housing: Where am I supposed to live?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">While Title IX protects pregnant students from discrimination, most dorms are not designed for young families. Some campuses have family housing available, but students may need to transition to off-campus options. Our team can help you explore all your options and find housing that suits your situation.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Finances: Money &amp; Budgeting</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Finances can feel especially scary during an unplanned pregnancy. After all, this is both a financial commitment and a surprise. If you aren&rsquo;t already budgeting, learning budgeting basics and applying them during pregnancy and early parenting can help give you control and confidence over your <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/scholarships-tuition-assistance-financial-aid-for-pregnant-students" target="_blank">financial situation.</a> There are many realistic, small ways to build up your savings, as well as<a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/how-to-fill-out-the-fafsa-when-youre-pregnant" target="_blank"> grants,</a> scholarships, and other financial assistance that can help lighten the load (and our team would love to help you find them).</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Health: Insurance &amp; Medical Care</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re under 26 years old, you may still be eligible for medical coverage through your parents&rsquo; insurance. If you&rsquo;re in your late 20s or don&rsquo;t have access to medical insurance through your parents, there are other options for accessing affordable medical care. You may want to explore student insurance, medicaid, or insurance options through an employer. Throughout pregnancy, consistent prenatal care helps you and your baby stay healthy and safe and can prevent more costly medical issues later on.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Parenting: Anxiety &amp; Not Feeling Ready</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">A lot of women in their 20s feel anxious about whether they&rsquo;ll be a good parent. Maybe you feel unprepared or wish you had more life experience before taking on this responsibility. It may not feel good to worry about this, but if you&rsquo;re worried, it means you care. And if you care, you&rsquo;re already on your way to being an amazing parent.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Remember that you don&rsquo;t have to be perfect. Care and consistency will take you farther than perfection paralysis. If you take parenting one day at a time, one decision at a time, your parenting skills and love for your little one will grow alongside them.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Support: Your Partner &amp; Support System</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Do you feel like you and your partner aren&rsquo;t on the same page? Are you uncertain about their level of commitment and support? You were never meant to do this alone. Our team is here to help you navigate challenging conversations, set boundaries, and protect your emotional health. Having a good support system can go a long way when you don&rsquo;t have everything figured out (and no one does). <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/get-help-fast.html" target="_blank">Your support system </a>might include family, friends, counselors, or non-profit organizations like ours. Learning to ask for help can feel uncomfortable, but you don&rsquo;t have to do it alone&mdash;we can help you take that first step.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">You still have a future.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Unplanned pregnancy in your 20s doesn&rsquo;t erase all your dreams. It will make life look different, but that doesn&rsquo;t mean it will be worse. You can still have a life of meaning, joy, and success. You can still graduate college.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re feeling overwhelmed, focus on the right next step instead of the entire staircase. Break the future into manageable pieces. Celebrate the small wins. Give yourself grace on the hard days.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reach out to our team at The Avi Project for material and emotional support. We&rsquo;re available 24/7. You can call or text us at &#8203;720-386-6009. It&rsquo;s free and confidential.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Financial Help & Free Resources For Pregnant College Students]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/financial-help-free-resources-for-pregnant-college-students]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/financial-help-free-resources-for-pregnant-college-students#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 21:11:09 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/financial-help-free-resources-for-pregnant-college-students</guid><description><![CDATA[    Pregnant college students face several financial pressures, and many navigate them alone. Tuition, medical expenses, housing, transportation, food, and baby supplies can add up quickly. Luckily, there&rsquo;s financial help available that students often don&rsquo;t know about! If you&rsquo;re an expectant student who wants to save money, access meaningful support, and use all your campus benefits fully, read on.Affordable Medical Care For Pregnant StudentsStruggling to get affordable medical [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Pregnant college students face several financial pressures, and many navigate them alone. Tuition, medical expenses, housing, transportation, food, and baby supplies can add up quickly. Luckily, there&rsquo;s financial help available that students often don&rsquo;t know about! If you&rsquo;re an expectant student who wants to save money, access meaningful support, and use all your campus benefits fully, read on.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Affordable Medical Care For Pregnant Students</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Struggling to get affordable medical care without insurance? Confused by copays and frustrated that you&rsquo;re nowhere near meeting your deductible? The costs of ultrasounds, blood tests, and screenings can add up quickly, and it can cause anxiety when labor and delivery costs are on the horizon, it&rsquo;s natural to feel anxious.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">While most college campuses provide affordable checkups or nurse consultations, students navigating an unplanned pregnancy often need more specialized support. The Avi Project focuses on understanding and meeting those unique needs. Through The Avi Project, students can access <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/get-help-fast.html" target="_blank">health and wellness specialists,</a> licensed counselors, compassionate advisers, doulas, and even prenatal massages. Pregnant students should never have to worry about getting affordable medical care, which is why we&rsquo;ve partnered with professionals to keep care quality high but costs low.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Free Academic Resources for Expectant College Students</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Many students wonder if they&rsquo;ll have to <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/i-got-pregnant-in-college-should-i-take-a-semester-off-of-school" target="_blank">delay graduation, </a>and don&rsquo;t want to drop classes or take lighter course loads. Others rely on scholarships with GPA requirements and wonder how they&rsquo;ll keep their grades up while managing pregnancy symptoms and doctor appointments. That&rsquo;s when a little extra support can go a long way - the key is to work smarter, not harder!</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you haven&rsquo;t already, find out if free tutoring is available on your campus. It&rsquo;s a great way to get personalized academic support without paying for a private tutor. Many colleges also offer time-management classes and study skills sessions that can help you work more efficiently. If you&rsquo;re on a mission to save your GPA, your first step is studying </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">how to study</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">. In addition, you can save a little money with free textbook loans from your library. Also ask about whether students get free access to apps like Adobe or citation tools with their student emails. And with AI tools rapidly expanding, your school may even offer approved assistive AI technology at no cost.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Career Support For Pregnant Students</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Raising a family can create extra pressure to enter a stable, well-paying field. In addition, new parents can find it challenging to balance career preparation with parenting responsibilities. There&rsquo;s also extra pressure to choose a career that offers flexible hours, remote-work options, or limited travel.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re feeling stressed about building a career, your campus may have free resources that can help. Services like r&eacute;sum&eacute; reviews, job-search coaching, internship placement support, and other career-readiness tools can save you valuable time and money you&rsquo;d otherwise spend on outside services. The Avi Project also offers career counseling tailored specifically to the needs of new moms and pregnant students. If you&rsquo;re looking for work-life balance, a clear path forward, and one less thing to worry about, text us today to get connected to a career counselor who understands. The Avi Project also offers tuition assistance, so if you need help chasing your professional dreams, we&rsquo;ve got it covered.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Clothes, Food, &amp; Housing for Pregnant Students</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">When dorms don&rsquo;t allow children or lack family-friendly housing, pregnant students often worry about where they&rsquo;ll live once the baby arrives. Concerns about food insecurity &mdash; especially with increased nutritional needs during pregnancy &mdash; can add even more stress. And let&rsquo;s not forget that maternity clothes and newborn supplies come at an additional cost.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Campus food pantries that offer free groceries, pantry items, and hygiene products can offer some financial relief. Many now include baby essentials like diapers or wipes as well. Students can sometimes find free meals at student campus events. While thrift stores aren&rsquo;t usually located on campus, there are often local exchanges where you can swap clothes for free or a &ldquo;campus closet&rdquo; that offers free clothes ranging from casual to professional. The Avi Project also provides food, clothes, baby support, and even housing arrangements, to expectant students in need.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Get Financial Assistance Today</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Pregnant college students face many financial challenges and personal pressures, but many students don&rsquo;t realize how many free resources are available to support them. Whether you need affordable medical care, academic and career resources, or help covering the basics like clothes, food, and housing - you have options. We even offer tuition assistance and help students experiencing unplanned pregnancy find <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/scholarships-tuition-assistance-financial-aid-for-pregnant-students" target="_blank">scholarship opportunities.</a> If you&rsquo;re struggling to find the help you need on campus, or if you&rsquo;re looking for a support team who understands your unique challenges and needs, contact The Avi Project today at 720-386-6009. It&rsquo;s completely confidential and we&rsquo;re available 24/7.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Resources for Pregnant Students at University of Colorado]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-university-of-colorado]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-university-of-colorado#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2025 17:21:13 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Colorado Resources]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-university-of-colorado</guid><description><![CDATA[    Here&rsquo;s a quick guide to resources for pregnant college students at the University of Colorado. If you&rsquo;re studying at CU Denver, Boulder, or Colorado Springs, it&rsquo;s important to know that there are support systems in place to help you navigate your academic, emotional, and physical journey during this time. This guide will walk you through your rights as a student facing unplanned pregnancy, and the resources available to you both on and off campus.Pregnancy Accommodations at [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Here&rsquo;s a quick guide to resources for pregnant college students at the University of Colorado. If you&rsquo;re studying at CU Denver, Boulder, or Colorado Springs, it&rsquo;s important to know that there are support systems in place to help you navigate your academic, emotional, and physical journey during this time. This guide will walk you through your rights as a student facing unplanned pregnancy, and the resources available to you both on and off campus.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Pregnancy Accommodations at University of Colorado</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">There are several supportive resources for pregnant and parenting students at the University of Colorado:</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Lactation Rooms</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The University of Colorado has guidelines to support pregnant and parenting students. In accordance with that policy, each campus at University of Colorado provides lactation rooms. Whether you&rsquo;re at CU Boulder, CU Denver, or UCCS, you&rsquo;ll have access to private rooms to pump or breastfeed. If you&rsquo;re having trouble finding the lactation rooms, contact the Office of Equity for more information. Room locations may also be listed on the CU website.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Childcare</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">University of Colorado offers childcare programs for infant, toddler, and preschool-aged children at the Children&rsquo;s Center at CU Boulder. Students are invited to fill out an interest form to learn more about enrollment for their children. Programs like the Colorado Child Care Assistance Program (CCCAP) can help students cover the cost of childcare while attending school.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Mental Health &amp; Counseling</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">CU Boulder offers a range of mental health services to students, including counseling, support groups, and more. Earlier in 2025, Counseling and Psychiatric Services (CAPS) began offering a new Postpartum Support Group to graduate students. Contact CAPS to learn more about upcoming events such as workshops and screenings.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Title IX, Accommodations &amp; Legal Rights</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">CU Boulder ensures pregnant students will have the same support as others with medical conditions, following <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/title-ix-rights-pregnant-college-student" target="_blank">Title IX guidelines.</a></span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><a href="https://www.colorado.edu/oiec/disability-pregnancy-lactation/employment-accommodations/pregnancy" target="_blank">&ldquo;CU Boulder's policy</a> is to treat students, faculty, and staff affected by a pregnancy, childbirth, or related medical conditions in the same manner as other individuals unable to work or participate in their education because of their physical condition.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Students may submit pregnancy accommodation forms with a medical information request from their healthcare practitioner.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Unplanned Pregnancy Support</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Our team at The Avi Project is dedicated to helping students experiencing unexpected pregnancy continue to pursue their educational goals. Call or text us any time, any day, at 720-386-6009 to <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/" target="_blank">learn more </a>about&hellip;</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Emotional and Physical Support</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Financial Assistance</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Career Counseling</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Material Resources</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you just found out you&rsquo;re pregnant and are unsure what to do next, we provide pregnant college students another option when making the difficult decision to abort, parent, or choose adoption. &#8203;The Avi Project provides all the resources, education, and emotional tools expectant students need to take the fear out of college pregnancy.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Next Steps</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reach out to our team at The Avi Project to speak with a compassionate confidante and get the material resources you need to pursue your education with peace of mind. Consider requesting <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/accommodations-for-pregnant-college-students" target="_blank">pregnancy accommodations, </a>which may include excused absences, extended deadlines, snack or bathroom breaks, or other changes that help make education accessible in spite of pregnancy-related challenges.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Note: Please contact CU directly to obtain up-to-date policy information. The Avi Project is not affiliated with CU.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Resources for Pregnant Students at Colorado Christian University]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-colorado-christian-university]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-colorado-christian-university#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 19:17:03 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Colorado Resources]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/resources-for-pregnant-students-at-colorado-christian-university</guid><description><![CDATA[    Here&rsquo;s a quick starter guide to resources for pregnant college students at Colorado Christian University. If you&rsquo;re studying on-campus at CCU in Lakewood, Colorado, this is what you need to know about your rights when facing an unplanned pregnancy. There are many tools available to make your time at college less stressful!Pregnancy Accommodations at CCUPregnancy accommodations help expectant students access educational programs. If doctor appointments, limited mobility, or other  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Here&rsquo;s a quick starter guide to resources for pregnant college students at Colorado Christian University. If you&rsquo;re studying on-campus at CCU in Lakewood, Colorado, this is what you need to know about your rights when facing an unplanned pregnancy. There are many tools available to make your time at college less stressful!</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Pregnancy Accommodations at CCU</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Pregnancy accommodations help expectant students access educational programs. If doctor appointments, limited mobility, or other pregnancy-related challenges are making it difficult to keep up with schoolwork, it&rsquo;s perfectly acceptable to ask for some flexibility. <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/accommodations-for-pregnant-college-students" target="_blank">Accommodations </a>may include:</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Excused absences</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Rescheduling tests</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Extended deadlines</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Schedule changes</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Making up missed assignments</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Snacks &amp; bathroom breaks</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Online classes</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Since CCU is composed of two colleges plus an academy, the process for requesting accommodations for pregnancy depends on the student&rsquo;s enrollment:</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you&rsquo;re enrolled at the College of Undergraduate Studies, contact the Student Success Services Coordinator at the Life Directions Center.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you&rsquo;re enrolled at the College of Adult and Graduate Studies Online, contact the Disability and Accessibility Services office.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you&rsquo;re enrolled at the Academy, contact the Online Dual Enrollment Manager.</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Students requesting accommodations are required to complete the request process to receive a Certificate of Accommodations. You may be required to provide documentation from your doctor substantiating your need for accommodation. It&rsquo;s important to know that the only way to receive a guarantee of accommodations is to complete this process.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Title IX at CCU</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Colorado Christian University receives federal funding, and is thereby obligated to apply <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/title-ix-rights-pregnant-college-student" target="_blank">Title IX policies</a>. For pregnant students, this means that sex-based discrimination, including discrimination based on pregnancy or parental status, is prohibited. Details on CCU&rsquo;s Title IX policies are available at</span><a href="http://ccu.edu"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> </span><span style="color:rgb(17, 85, 204)">ccu.edu</span></a><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Good To Know: Religious Exemptions</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Though it&rsquo;s unknown whether CCU has requested or received any exemptions, you should be aware that some religiously affiliated institutions qualify for exemptions to Title IX policies if they conflict with faith-based tenets.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Good To Ask: Lactation Rooms &amp; More</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Publicly available information does not indicate that CCU provides on-campus lactation rooms, childcare services, parental/family housing, or other resources commonly found at larger public universities. It may be worthwhile to ask the Title IX office if these services are available.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Filling In The Blanks</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Our team at The Avi Project is dedicated to helping students experiencing unexpected pregnancy continue to pursue their educational goals. Call or text us any time, any day, at 720-386-6009 to learn more about&hellip;</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Emotional and Physical Support</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Financial Assistance</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Career Counseling</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Material Resources</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you just found out you&rsquo;re pregnant and are unsure what to do next, we provide pregnant college students another option when making the difficult decision to abort, parent, or choose adoption. &#8203;The Avi Project provides all the resources, education, and emotional tools expectant students need to take the fear out of college pregnancy.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Next Steps</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Contact the appropriate coordinator, based on your enrollment, to inquire about pregnancy accommodations. Request details about what accommodations are available and begin the application process.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re facing an unplanned pregnancy and don&rsquo;t feel confident about how to move forward, reach out to our team at The Avi Project to learn more about the emotional, financial, and material <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/" target="_blank">support available </a>to you during this new chapter of your life. We are dedicated to helping CCU students in Lakewood, CO continue their education and pursue fulfilling careers.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Note: Please contact CCU directly to obtain up-to-date policy information. The Avi Project is not affiliated with CCU.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jobs For When You're Pregnant In College]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/jobs-for-when-youre-pregnant-in-college]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/jobs-for-when-youre-pregnant-in-college#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2025 14:47:43 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Finances]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/jobs-for-when-youre-pregnant-in-college</guid><description><![CDATA[    Looking for an entry-level job with low physical demands or flexible hours? We&rsquo;re here to help. As a college student navigating pregnancy, you might feel nervous about finding a job that suits your needs. If you&rsquo;re worried about working around possible fatigue, morning sickness, or doctor appointments, this guide will help you get started with your job search.Here&rsquo;s what to look for in a job if you&rsquo;re pregnant. Keep an eye out for flexible scheduling, remote or hybrid [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Looking for an entry-level job with low physical demands or flexible hours? We&rsquo;re here to help. As a college student navigating pregnancy, you might feel nervous about finding a job that suits your needs. If you&rsquo;re worried about working around possible fatigue, morning sickness, or doctor appointments, this guide will help you get started with your job search.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Here&rsquo;s what to look for in a job if you&rsquo;re pregnant. Keep an eye out for flexible scheduling, remote or hybrid work options, limited travel requirements, limited physical demands, clear maternity policies, a responsive HR team, and benefits like health insurance, short-term disability, and paid parental leave. Keep reading to learn more about the best jobs for pregnant women who are attending college classes.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Remote Jobs</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Work-from-home jobs can be a great option for students with crazy schedules in need of work-life balance. Working from home may also offer more flexibility to accommodate unexpected pregnancy symptoms.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Virtual Assistant: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Provides remote administrative support such as scheduling, email management, and task coordination for individuals or businesses.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Data Entry: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Inputs, updates, and maintains information in digital systems or databases with a focus on accuracy and speed.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Customer Service: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Assists customers by responding to inquiries, resolving issues, and providing product or service information, often via phone, chat, or email.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Online Tutoring: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Offers academic support or subject-specific instruction to students over video calls or messaging platforms.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Gig Economy Jobs</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Gig jobs are short-term engagements where you&rsquo;re hired to complete specific tasks or projects. Many pregnant students love gig jobs because they have so much control over their schedule, environment, and physical demands. Unfortunately, most gig jobs do not provide benefits like health insurance.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Freelance Writing or Editing: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Creates or refines written content for clients such as blogs, articles, or marketing materials on a flexible, project-based schedule.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Pet Sitting/Dog Walking: </span><span style="font-weight:400">Provides care, companionship, and exercise for pets while their owners are away, either in-home or on scheduled walks.</span></span></li></ul><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Reselling: </span><span>Sells handmade, vintage, or secondhand items online by sourcing, listing, and shipping products through e-commerce platforms.</span></span></li></ul><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Food Delivery: </span><span>Picks up and delivers meals or groceries to customers using a personal vehicle or bike, often on a self-chosen schedule.</span></span></li></ul><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Babysitting: </span><span>Cares for children in the absence of their parents, ensuring safety, basic needs, and entertainment during agreed-upon hours.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Uber Eats, DoorDash, Instacart: </span><span>Delivers food or groceries to customers using your own vehicle or bike, with the ability to choose when and how long you work.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Ways To Make Money Online</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Working online can be a good way to supplement income from a part-time job, especially if you find yourself with a couple spare hours here and there outside of typical 9 to 5 work hours.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Transcription: </span><span>Earns money by listening to audio recordings and accurately typing them into text format.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Taking Surveys: </span><span>Provides feedback or opinions through online questionnaires in exchange for small payments or gift cards.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">App Tester / Website Tester: </span><span>Gets paid to test the usability and functionality of websites or mobile apps while providing feedback on the user experience.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Microtasker: </span><span>Completes simple, repetitive online tasks&mdash;like categorizing images or verifying data&mdash;for small payments per task.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Captioning / Subtitling: </span><span>Adds accurate text to videos by syncing spoken words and sounds with timed captions or subtitles.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">AI Training / Content Tagging: </span><span>Labels images, text, or audio to help train artificial intelligence systems, often through structured, remote tasks.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">R&eacute;sum&eacute; / Canva Template Seller: </span><span>Designs and sells downloadable templates for r&eacute;sum&eacute;s, planners, or branding kits, often through platforms like Etsy.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Freelance Services for Social Media Management, Blog Writing, or Basic Design: </span><span>Offers creative or marketing services to individuals or businesses on a contract basis, often through platforms like Fiverr or Upwork.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Print on Demand &ndash; Digital Art, Stickers, Planners, T-Shirts: </span><span>Sells custom-designed products that are printed and shipped by third-party services when ordered, requiring no inventory.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Jobs On Campus</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Looking for a work-study position or a job that doesn&rsquo;t require extra traveling after class? An on-campus job might be a good fit. Typically colleges have several desk or administrative positions that don&rsquo;t require long hours on your feet or heavy-lifting.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Library Assistant</span><span>: Helps organize, shelve, and check out materials while assisting patrons with library services.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Library Monitor</span><span>: Maintains a quiet study environment and enforces library policies.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Research Assistant</span><span>: Supports faculty or academic staff by gathering data, analyzing information, and preparing reports.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Desk Jobs (Residence Halls, Admin Offices)</span><span>: Provides customer service, answers phones, and performs basic administrative tasks.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Teaching Assistant</span><span>: Assists instructors with grading, classroom support, and tutoring students.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Test Proctor</span><span>: Supervises test-takers to ensure academic integrity and compliance with testing procedures.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Ticket Booth Attendant</span><span>: Sells or distributes tickets and provides event-related information to customers.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Archivist Assistant/Records Clerk</span><span>: Organizes, files, and maintains access to historical or official documents.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Building Monitor</span><span>: Oversees facility access, enforces rules, and reports maintenance or safety issues.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">File Clerk</span><span>: Sorts, organizes, and retrieves documents for office staff as needed.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Records Technician</span><span>: Maintains and updates databases or paper records with accuracy and confidentiality.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Registrar&rsquo;s Office Data Clerk</span><span>: Enters and updates student records and supports academic services.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Transit Information Desk Attendant</span><span>: Provides schedules, route details, and travel advice to commuters.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Mailroom Assistant</span><span>: Sorts, distributes, and processes incoming and outgoing mail.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Gym Equipment Attendant</span><span>: Maintains cleanliness and functionality of workout areas and assists gym users.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">ID Card Issuer at Government/Corporate Sites</span><span>: Verifies identities and produces official ID badges for staff or visitors.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">In-Person Jobs</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Need a little more social interaction than a virtual job, but not looking for a position on-campus? There are more in-person options out there! Community centers, hotels, museums, salons, and other retail locations always need help.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Receptionist</span><span>: Greets visitors, answers phones, and manages appointments or front-desk operations.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Cashier</span><span>: Handles customer purchases, processes payments, and provides receipts and change.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Bookstore Clerk</span><span>: Assists customers, stocks shelves, and manages book sales and inventory.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Salon or Spa Assistant</span><span>: Supports stylists or technicians by cleaning, organizing tools, and scheduling clients.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Thrift Store/Boutique Associate</span><span>: Sorts and prices merchandise, assists shoppers, and maintains store displays.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Retail Associate</span><span>: Helps customers, stocks products, and ensures a clean, organized sales floor.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Museum or Gallery Attendant</span><span>: Greets visitors, provides information, and ensures the security of exhibits.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Front Desk Assistant at a Small Hotel</span><span>: Manages guest check-ins/outs, handles reservations, and responds to inquiries.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Theater/Concert Hall Usher</span><span>: Guides guests to seats, distributes programs, and assists with crowd management.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Community Center Receptionist</span><span>: Greets visitors, answers questions, and assists with scheduling and events.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Whether you&rsquo;re looking for remote work, a social in-person job, or an easy-going work-study position on campus, this list will get you started in your search. Gig jobs, freelancing, and administrative positions can be a great fit for a busy college student with a growing family. Take the first step today by updating your resume and bookmarking a few job descriptions. Balancing work, school, and family isn&rsquo;t easy, but it&rsquo;s absolutely doable!</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Boyfriend Wants Me To Have An Abortion]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-have-an-abortion]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-have-an-abortion#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2025 17:02:38 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Abortion]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-have-an-abortion</guid><description><![CDATA[    You&rsquo;re having an unplanned pregnancy, and now your boyfriend wants you to get an abortion&hellip; but you&rsquo;re not sure you want to. If you get an abortion, will you regret it? If you don&rsquo;t get an abortion, will he leave? Will you resent him either way? If this is you right now, you&rsquo;re understandably facing a whirlwind of doubt, fear, and some very tough questions. Let&rsquo;s talk about what you can do in a situation like this.If You&rsquo;re Hesitating To Get An Abort [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You&rsquo;re having an unplanned pregnancy, and now your boyfriend wants you to get an abortion&hellip; but you&rsquo;re not sure you want to. If you get an abortion, will you regret it? If you don&rsquo;t get an abortion, will he leave? Will you resent him either way? If this is you right now, you&rsquo;re understandably facing a whirlwind of doubt, fear, and some very tough questions. Let&rsquo;s talk about what you can do in a situation like this.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">If You&rsquo;re Hesitating To Get An Abortion</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">There are many different reasons why you might hesitate to get an abortion, regardless of whether you&rsquo;re pro-choice or pro-life.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re pro-choice, it&rsquo;s easy to feel like you&rsquo;re not accurately representing your beliefs if you choose not to get an abortion. But remember, pro-choice includes the choice to keep a pregnancy, even if it&rsquo;s unplanned. Having an abortion you don&rsquo;t want or aren&rsquo;t sure about, isn&rsquo;t pro-choice.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re pro-life, you might already know whether you want an abortion or not, but still find it just as hard to make that decision when your partner doesn&rsquo;t agree with it.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Understanding His Point Of View</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Sit down with your partner and have a conversation where you&rsquo;ll each sincerely attempt to understand each other.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Find out why he wants you to have an abortion. What are his reasons? They might include fear of responsibility, financial concerns, or simple unpreparedness - this was, after all, unplanned.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Explain why you&rsquo;re hesitant to have an abortion, and why you might not agree with what he wants. You can understand someone&rsquo;s perspective, but maintain a different viewpoint. You can understand their reasoning, their emotions, their background, their values, but still&hellip; have your own. You might say, &ldquo;I see where you're coming from, and I understand why you'd feel that way. I just don't see it the same way." You can empathize with someone and still make a different choice.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Remember, understanding why he wants you to have an abortion doesn&rsquo;t mean you owe it to him to get one. Empathy doesn&rsquo;t equal obligation. If you feel like you owe it to him to have an abortion that you don&rsquo;t want, consider whether it could stem from a deeper belief that kindness means compliance, from fear of being alone, from a long-standing pattern of putting others&rsquo; needs ahead of your own, or just from a strong desire to avoid disappointing him.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Somewhere in this conversation, you should discuss the different abortion options and what the procedures are like. As with any medical procedure, you should know what will happen before, during, and after the procedure, as well as any long and short-term risks. Your partner should understand what they&rsquo;re asking you to do, and you need to be able to give informed consent if you&rsquo;re considering having the procedure.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Talk about all your options - abortion, adoption, and parenting. It&rsquo;s ok if some options are ruled out very quickly, but you should both have an understanding of why.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Be mindful of any signs that he may be pressuring you. It&rsquo;s one thing for him to communicate his opinion, it&rsquo;s another thing to try to coerce or manipulate you. If you recognize signs of coercion, it might not be productive or healthy to continue the conversation at that time.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">What Pressure Looks Like</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">How can you tell whether someone&rsquo;s just sharing their point of view, or trying to pressure you? Here are some signs to look for.</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Emotional&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Emotional pressure is usually used to make you feel responsible for someone else&rsquo;s emotional state or future. It can sound like:</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you keep the baby, you&rsquo;re ruining my life.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you loved me, you would get an abortion.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>How can you do this to me after everything we&rsquo;ve been through?</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Verbal</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Verbal pressure demeans, dismisses, or badgers you to get you to change your mind. It can sound like:</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>You&rsquo;re not thinking straight - just do it and thank me later.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Don&rsquo;t be stupid. This is the only smart option.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Everyone else in your situation would get an abortion. Why can&rsquo;t you see that?</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Coercive</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Coercive pressure relies on fear or consequences. It can sound like:&nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you don&rsquo;t get an abortion, I&rsquo;m leaving and never looking back.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>If you keep the baby, you&rsquo;ll have to find somewhere else to live.</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>I&rsquo;ll make sure you regret it if you don&rsquo;t do what I say.</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul></li></ul><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">How To Respond To Pressure</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you feel pressured to get an abortion that you&rsquo;re uncertain about, it can be helpful to use statements that show empathy without compromising your own beliefs. Here are some phrases you might be able to use, if it feels right in your situation.</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I need space to figure out what I want before I decide.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I understand your fears, but I need you to understand mine too.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I see where you're coming from, and part of me feels torn because I care. But I also know I&rsquo;d be saying yes for the wrong reasons &mdash; and I don&rsquo;t want to do that to either of us.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I understand that this would make things easier for you, and I really do get why you feel that way. But this is my body, and I&rsquo;m not comfortable with the procedure. I need that to be respected.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve thought a lot about this, and while I know it would relieve some pressure on you, I&rsquo;m not okay with going through with it. I&rsquo;m saying no.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It could help to sit down with an objective third party, such as a counselor, if you&rsquo;re struggling to have these conversations with your partner. If you feel that you&rsquo;re being pressured to have an abortion, call us today at 720-386-6009 for help and support. We specialize in helping pregnant college students navigate unexpected pregnancies, and it&rsquo;s completely free and confidential.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">The Future Of Your Relationship</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Things might not be as bad as they seem. His first reaction isn&rsquo;t his final reaction. This is tough for both of you, and he might need some time to process the news.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Legally, women usually have the right to decide whether they have an abortion or not. The father doesn&rsquo;t typically have a legal right to make the decision. If you&rsquo;re being pressured to get an abortion, that coercion can make it feel like abortion is your only choice - but it&rsquo;s not. Just because they don&rsquo;t like your other choice, doesn&rsquo;t mean you don&rsquo;t still get to choose.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re worrying about what the future of your relationship might look like, it could go a few directions, including:</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you don&rsquo;t have an abortion,</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>He could step up in unexpected ways and surprise himself and you</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>He could leave you</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>He could be overwhelmed with the responsibilities of parenthood</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Your relationship will change no matter what</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you do have an abortion,</span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>You could spend the rest of your life resenting him</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>You could stay together</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>You could leave him</span></span><br /><span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>Your relationship will change no matter what</span></span><br /><span></span></li></ul><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">What&rsquo;s Next?</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Have an honest conversation with your boyfriend. Consider getting counseling - call our team any time of night or day at 720-386-6009. Turn to your support system. See a doctor to make sure you&rsquo;re healthy. Get an ultrasound to confirm how far along you are. If your boyfriend wants you to get an abortion but you&rsquo;re unsure, hopefully this guide helps you navigate your emotions, find clarity, and stand up for your choice.</span></span><br /><span></span><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Torn Between Having An Abortion And Keeping My Baby]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/torn-between-having-an-abortion-and-keeping-my-baby]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/torn-between-having-an-abortion-and-keeping-my-baby#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 14:25:54 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Abortion]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/torn-between-having-an-abortion-and-keeping-my-baby</guid><description><![CDATA[    If you&rsquo;re reading this, you might be facing an unexpected pregnancy and trying to make sense of a difficult situation, and torn between getting an abortion and keeping your baby. No blog article will be able to make that decision for you. However, having clear, thoughtful information can help you feel more confident and supported as you consider your next steps. This post will help you feel a little more grounded as you figure out the best option for you.When you're facing an unexpecte [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re reading this, you might be facing an unexpected pregnancy and trying to make sense of a difficult situation, and torn between getting an abortion and keeping your baby. No blog article will be able to make that decision for you. However, having clear, thoughtful information can help you feel more confident and supported as you consider your next steps. This post will help you feel a little more grounded as you figure out the best option for you.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">When you're facing an unexpected pregnancy, there are three main paths to consider:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Parenting</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Adoption</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Abortion</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">There are a few common factors that usually impact someone&rsquo;s decision to continue the pregnancy or get an abortion:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Finances</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Social support</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Personal values</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Future goals and plans</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Emotional attachment</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Interest in parenting</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The factors that are most important to one person might not matter as much to someone else. Everyone&rsquo;s situation is unique. With that in mind, let&rsquo;s talk about common reasons why people may or may not choose each of the three options:</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Parenting</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose not to parent:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t feel prepared to parent right now.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to be a parent, ever.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to raise a child with their current partner.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t think it&rsquo;s good timing to become a parent.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t have enough financial stability.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t have a good support system.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Parenting would stop them from pursuing other goals.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose to parent:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They always wanted to become a parent.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Choosing to parent aligns with their values.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re attracted to the joys of parenting.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re emotionally bonded to the baby.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Parenting gives them purpose and hope for the future.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re uncertain about being able to have kids later on.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They think they&rsquo;ll regret aborting or adopting.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Adoption</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose not to have an adoption:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They feel connected to their baby.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re worried about what would happen to their baby.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want the opportunity to be a mother.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They have concerns about the adoptive process.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re worried about being judged.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They think the long-term impact will be negative.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want to keep the pregnancy a secret.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose to have an adoption:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want more life experience before being responsible for a child.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They aren&rsquo;t interested in raising a family.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re not in a healthy or long-term relationship.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t think they can provide a stable, safe home for a child.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want to give adoptive parents the chance to have a family.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want to help the child have parents who will care for it.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to have an abortion.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Abortion</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose not to abort:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re willing, or even excited, to parent.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They would rather let another couple adopt their baby.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to go through the medical procedure.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- Their partner, family, friends, counselor, or confidante are supportive.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re able to get financial assistance.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They have access to resources that help them pursue their other goals.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They&rsquo;re honoring their religious beliefs or personal values.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Reasons why people choose to abort:</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to carry the pregnancy to term.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to give birth.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They have health concerns.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- The pregnancy resulted from a traumatic event.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They want to move on with their lives relatively quickly.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to go through an adoption.</span></span><br /><span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">- They don&rsquo;t want to parent.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">When you&rsquo;re ready, it might help to set aside some quiet time to think about your situation - a time when you&rsquo;ll have some privacy and won&rsquo;t be interrupted. Have some water, a snack, a notepad, and a pen nearby. If you start feeling overwhelmed, take a few deep breaths. While it&rsquo;s important to have the support of others when making a life-changing decision like this, it can also be helpful to go into those conversations with a good sense of your own situation.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you want to speak with a licensed counselor, get financial help with medical care or tuition, or find a support group with other students, call or text us at 720-386-6009. Our compassionate confidantes are ready to listen to you and help you understand all of your options any time of day or night (it&rsquo;s free and completely confidential).</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The Avi Project provides all the resources, education, and emotional tools expectant students need to take the fear out of college pregnancy. We're the bridge between college pregnancy and the necessary resources to navigate through it, and we don&rsquo;t think any student should have to go through it alone.</span></span><br /><span></span><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help for Pregnant College Students]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/help-for-pregnant-college-students]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/help-for-pregnant-college-students#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2025 02:09:10 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Pregnant in College]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/help-for-pregnant-college-students</guid><description><![CDATA[    Learn how to get help when you&rsquo;re pregnant in college. From financial resources to emotional support, discover the options available to help you balance school and motherhood. You don&rsquo;t have to face an unplanned pregnancy alone.Help Evaluating ChoicesLicensed counselors and health specialists can help you understand your options and empower you to make important choices about how to move forward. Typically, they will outline the options of keeping the baby, having an adoption, or [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Learn how to get help when you&rsquo;re pregnant in college. From financial resources to emotional support, discover the options available to help you balance school and motherhood. You don&rsquo;t have to face an unplanned pregnancy alone.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help Evaluating Choices</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Licensed counselors and health specialists can help you understand your options and empower you to make important choices about how to move forward. Typically, they will outline the options of keeping the baby, having an adoption, or having an abortion. When making an important decision like this one, it&rsquo;s important to explore all the support options available to you. If you have educational goals and a dream career, you don&rsquo;t have to sacrifice them just because life took an unexpected turn. Call or text our team at 720-386-6009 to be put in touch with a compassionate advisor.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help With Academic Challenges</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">As a pregnant student, you&rsquo;re legally protected. <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/title-ix-rights-pregnant-college-student" target="_blank">Title IX,</a> a federal law in the US, protects parenting and pregnant college students from sex-based discrimination. It ensures that expectant students have access to the same educational opportunities as other students, including scholarships and financial aid. Familiarizing yourself with Title IX can help when <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/accommodations-for-pregnant-college-students" target="_blank">requesting accommodations </a>leave of absence, or deadline extensions.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help With Finances</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It&rsquo;s ok if you&rsquo;re wondering how you&rsquo;ll be able to <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/how-to-afford-an-unplanned-pregnancy-in-college" target="_blank">afford an unplanned pregnancy </a>in college.Fortunately, there are steps you can take, including making a budget, getting help from government organizations, learning to live frugally, and considering whether to ask your family for financial support. If asking your family for help isn&rsquo;t an option, there are charitable organizations like The Avi Project that are eager to connect you with <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/scholarships-tuition-assistance-financial-aid-for-pregnant-students" target="_blank">financial resources.</a> There are also many scholarships, grants, and tuition assistance programs that are open just for expectant and parenting students.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help Getting Medical Care</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Finding a healthcare provider and understanding your health insurance options can be overwhelming when you&rsquo;re already navigating a major life change. However, you&rsquo;ll need medical support regardless of what else happens in the next few months. If you recently found out you&rsquo;re pregnant, you should have the pregnancy confirmed by a doctor. You&rsquo;ll also want to have a medical professional to contact in case you experience unexpected health changes. The Avi Project connects students in Colorado with health and wellness specialists and<a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/free-pregnancy-tests-prenatal-care-colorado" target="_blank"> low cost medical care.</a></span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help With Housing</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re living in a dorm room, you may need to find a new housing arrangement on campus. If your roommate or housing agreement doesn&rsquo;t allow for a baby, if your space isn&rsquo;t big enough, or if your current living situation isn&rsquo;t conducive to maintaining your health, other on-campus housing may be available. In case you need to find housing off-campus, it&rsquo;s ok to ask for help finding a safe, clean environment for your family. Charitable organizations like ours specialize in<a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/" target="_blank"> housing assistance</a> for pregnant students.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help With Emotional Distress</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We&rsquo;re proud to connect students with licensed counselors for crisis counseling and help them find support groups of other students who understand what they&rsquo;re going through. It&rsquo;s not uncommon to experience feelings of anxiety or depression when faced with major life changes, especially when they&rsquo;re unexpected. A counselor can help you work through overwhelming emotions, plan for the future, and feel ready to make difficult decisions.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help With Your Career</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You wanted to go to college, graduate, and start an amazing career. That doesn&rsquo;t have to change. Being pregnant while in school may present certain challenges, but alternative learning options like online courses, evening classes, or part-time study can keep you moving towards your goals while balancing new responsibilities. Connecting with a mentor who can direct you to internships, networking opportunities, and job fairs in your field can help you progress toward your goals.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Help in Colorado</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We&rsquo;re here to support pregnant <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/colorado-pregnancy-counseling.html" target="_blank">college students across Colorado, </a>connecting them with a variety of resources including licensed counselors, medical care, career counselors, and adoption services. We have a dedicated team ready to support you at several Colorado campuses, including Denver, Lakewood, Golden, Fort Collins, Greeley, Boulder, and Colorado Springs. Text or call us at 720-386-6009 to learn more - it&rsquo;s confidential and commitment-free.</span></span><br />&#8203;<br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Will I Regret Having An Abortion?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/will-i-regret-having-an-abortion]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/will-i-regret-having-an-abortion#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 23:41:43 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Abortion]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.theaviproject.com/blog/will-i-regret-having-an-abortion</guid><description><![CDATA[    Women facing unexpected pregnancy often worry they&rsquo;ll regret the way they handled this difficult situation. It can seem like there are no good options, and any choice could destroy your future, ruin your relationships, or both. Students experiencing unexpected pregnancy frequently worry about how their choice will impact their college plans and career path. There is an enormous amount of pressure to make the right choice, but it can feel impossible to know what that is.Evaluating all y [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Women facing unexpected pregnancy often worry they&rsquo;ll regret the way they handled this difficult situation. It can seem like there are no good options, and any choice could destroy your future, ruin your relationships, or both. Students experiencing unexpected pregnancy frequently worry about how their choice will impact their college plans and career path. There is an enormous amount of pressure to make the right choice, but it can feel impossible to know what that is.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Evaluating all your options - keeping the baby, having an abortion, or going through with adoption - can be overwhelming. Today, we&rsquo;re going to discuss abortion, and one of the most common questions about it - &ldquo;Will I regret having an abortion?&rdquo; It&rsquo;s a reasonable question to ask before any life-changing procedure, including this one. The good news is that there are more and more studies on the long-term impact of abortion. The bad news is that they&rsquo;re somewhat conflicting.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><a href="https://www.congress.gov/116/meeting/house/110504/documents/HHRG-116-IF14-20200212-SD049.pdf" target="_blank">One study</a> found that 84% of women mostly had positive feelings about their abortion several years afterward.<a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10257365/#:~:text=A%202015%20study%20undertaken%20by,data%20for%20reanalysis%20%5B5%5D" target="_blank"> Another study</a> found that 53-63% of women experienced guilt, 41-66% experienced regret, 64-74% sadness, and 31-43% anger. Yet another <a href="https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2020/01/416421/five-years-after-abortion-nearly-all-women-say-it-was-right-decision-study" target="_blank">study</a> found that, five years post-abortion, more than 95% of respondents said that abortion was the right decision for them. But then another <a href="https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/study-shows-60-of-women-regret-their-decision-to-abort/" target="_blank">study </a>reported that 60% of women who had abortions would have preferred not to. Some people have questioned whether these studies were designed correctly and whether there could have been biases at play, but regardless, the conflicting results can be confusing.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">So, for women who do regret having an abortion - why do they regret it? What factors can increase your chances of experiencing regret? Some women have an abortion, want children, but then experience infertility later in life and are unable to have kids. Some women were pressured or coerced into having an abortion that they didn&rsquo;t want, or felt obligated to have an abortion for their partner or their family. Some women discover that the medical procedure is not what they expected. They regret having an abortion because if they had known what the medical procedure was like, they wouldn&rsquo;t have wanted it. Some women regret their abortion because they wonder who their child would have been, and what life would be like now with them in it. Some women wanted to keep their baby, but felt like external factors made caring for a child impossible. There are a range of other feelings that can accompany regret, including loss, guilt, shame, and even depression, creating a complicated emotional landscape.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">While an unclear percentage of women regret their abortion, those who do regret it often report that it&rsquo;s the thing they regret most in life and it&rsquo;s continued to bother them for decades after the procedure. Abortion regret, when it does happen, is very personal and multi-faceted. Hopefully in the future, we will develop a better understanding of how abortion impacts women and their mental health in the long-term.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Abortion Regret FAQs</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">How long does abortion grief last?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This varies widely. Some women do not report experiencing grief after their abortions. Some women find that abortion grief lasts a few months, and fades with time. Some women don&rsquo;t experience grief about their abortion until years after it happened. And other women regret their abortions almost immediately, and grieve for decades afterward.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">What percentage of people regret having an abortion?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Studies report highly variable rates of abortion regret and mental health struggles following abortion.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Is it normal to regret an abortion?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Any life event where you experience loss or make a difficult and life-changing decision has the potential to trigger regret.&nbsp;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Is having an abortion traumatic?</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">There are several different ways to have an abortion, and some women find the procedures more traumatic than others. It&rsquo;s important to learn about what abortion involves to best judge whether it would be a traumatic experience for you.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you&rsquo;re a pregnant student facing unplanned pregnancy, and you&rsquo;re not sure how to move forward, the Avi Project specializes in <a href="https://www.theaviproject.com/" target="_blank">supporting unexpectedly pregnant college students.</a> We want every student to feel truly free to make the best choice for them, without worrying that they&rsquo;re sacrificing their education or career. By providing resources like tuition assistance, housing, medical care, access to licensed counselors, career counseling, and more, we empower students to chase their dreams, and ensure they have the support they need to pursue their education.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Contact us any time, any day, at 720-386-6009. If you don&rsquo;t like talking on the phone, texting is just fine. It&rsquo;s 100% confidential and commitment-free.</span></span><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>