What happens if you get pregnant in college?

Many things happen when you find yourself unexpectedly pregnant in college, and several areas of your life can be impacted including your education, career, and finances. You might worry about being able to finish your degree, keep your scholarship, or pursue a career. What happens now?

A pregnancy might not have been something you planned for during college, but there are many resources available to you, organizations who want to help support you, and legal protections in place (such as Title IX). Most importantly, you do not have to be alone during this challenging time. So if you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, whether you’re a freshman, sophomore, junior, or senior, take it one day at a time and ask for help when you need it.

What happens after I get a positive pregnancy test?
You will probably feel a lot of different emotions like shock, anxiety, or anger. It’s healthy to acknowledge those feelings. When you’re ready, there are a few simple steps you can take to start removing some of your uncertainty about the future. First, see your doctor to confirm your pregnancy with medical testing. Taking care of your health is important, no matter what you decide to do later on. It’s also a good time to lean on your support system (or build a support system) that can be there for you while you learn about your options for dealing with an unexpected pregnancy.

What happens to my college classes?
If you’re able to, continue attending your college classes as usual. Here are some tips for managing the demands of college during pregnancy. If you’re finding it difficult to attend your classes due to morning sickness, doctor appointments, or similar challenges, a federal law called Title IX protects parenting and pregnant college students from discrimination. Title IX prohibits sex-based discrimination in educational programs, and requires your college to make reasonable accommodations when necessary. These accommodations might include excused absences, flexible deadlines, or adjustments to class schedules. Pregnancy should be treated the same as any other medical condition.

What happens to my plans for future semesters?
In the long-term, you might wonder if you will have to take a break from college. This depends on your personal circumstances and preferences, but many women are able to continue their schooling without taking a semester off. While there are many questions to ask yourself when deciding whether to take a break from school, remember that many moms have gone through the exact same thing, and school staff are used to working with students through unexpected life changes.

What happens to my financial aid?
It’s a good idea to double-check the terms and conditions of any scholarships you were awarded, but generally your scholarship eligibility will not be affected by pregnancy due to Title IX laws. Additionally, you may be able to apply for more scholarships, since there are many scholarship opportunities just for moms. You may also qualify for more financial aid through programs like the FAFSA, pell grants, or state grants.

What happens with my professors, classmates, friends, and family?
How you want to share the news of your unexpected pregnancy is entirely up to you. Telling your professor that you’re pregnant can be helpful because then you can ask for accommodations and you’re legally protected. Your classmates may eventually notice your pregnancy, but you do not owe them any personal information. Telling your parents can be nerve-wracking, but they may also be able to offer a lot of emotional and financial support during a difficult time. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to your parents, it can help to confide in a trusted friend first. Your friend can support you during conversations with others, including when you talk to your parents.

What happens to my sorority membership?
If you’re a member of a sorority, check the by-laws to see if there are any rules regarding pregnancy and motherhood. Your sorority leaders should also be able to offer compassionate guidance. You may want to consider whether sorority life is something you still want to give your time to as well, since it can be very demanding. Prioritizing self-care during this time can help you maintain a positive outlook on the future.

What happens to my sports scholarship?
The NCAA says that athletic awards cannot be withdrawn due to pregnancy. While a student athlete may withdraw voluntarily, they can not be forced to quit. Pregnant student athletes are protected by the same bylaws that protect injured student athletes.

What happens to my career?
You have not ruined your chances of having a successful career. Have hope - your career is not over before it could begin! Your future is filled with opportunities, and an unexpected life change doesn't diminish your potential or worth. Your achievements and all of your efforts speak for themselves.

If you’re a college student facing an unplanned pregnancy, it’s natural to feel nervous. When deciding what to do next, be sure to gather all the information so you can make an informed decision. There is probably more support available to you than you know! You do not need to feel like you don’t have any options. With the right financial, medical, and emotional support, you have so much freedom to choose whatever is best for you and your baby. For students located in Colorado, our team at The Avi Project is available 24/7 to talk through your situation, help identify your options, and make a plan. Call or text 720-386-6009.

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